2. We determined to be sweet couple...
3. As you know, no life is perfect. We argued sometimes...
4. Whereas, we still together. Together forever...
2009-03-19
My kissing red pigs' love story
1.We met, and was being togerther...
2009-03-12
Can I Have This Dance
Can I Have This Dance
Can I Have This Dance
Take my hand, take a breath
Pull me close and take one step
Keep your eyes locked on mine,
And let the music be your guide.
Won't you promise me
(now won't you promise me, that you'll never forget)
We'll keep dancing (to keep dancing)
wherever we go next
It's like catching lightning the chances of finding someone like you
It's one in a million, the chances of feeling the way we do
And with every step together, we just keep on getting better
So can I have this dance (can I have this dance)
Can I have this dance
Take my hand, I'll take the lead
And every turn will be safe with me
Don't be afraid, afraid to fall
You know I'll catch you threw it all
And you can't keep us apart
(even a thousand miles, can't keep us apart)
'Cause my heart is (cause my heart is)
wherever you are
It's like catching lightning the chances of finding someone like you
It's one in a million, the chances of feeling the way we do
And with every step together, we just keep on getting better
So can I have this dance (can I have this dance)
Can I have this dance
Oh no mountains too high enough, oceans too wide
'Cause together or not, our dance won't stop
Let it rain, let it pour
What we have is worth fighting for
You know I believe, that we were meant to be
It's like catching lightning the chances of finding someone like you (like you)
It's one in a million, the chances of feeling the way we do (way we do)
And with every step together, we just keep on getting better
So can I have this dance (can I have this dance)
Can I have this dance
Can I have this dance
Can I have this dance
2009-03-07
"You have been missed"
I got a call from my younger brother this morning. It made me suddenly tense at that moment I picked up the phone. My brother seldom calls me if nothing happened. Usually we talk through MSN. There must be something happened if he must call me on the phone.
But he told me everything was OK. His calling just made sure I was all right, for he hadn’t seen me online for days. He said he just got a little worry about me. I felt great relief after he said so, and filled with joyful.
I was joyful because I was missed by someone (especially by families). It’s a great happiness to know about there’s someone cared about me. Everybody can understand that feeling of miss and been miss, I think.
I know the American always say ”I love you” or “I miss you” or something like that to their families. But most of Chinese don’t say such things to their families, even they do so. We just don’t speak out words like that, especially to parents. Most of Chinese parents have a power of authority to their children, not friends like. So the children have more respect than love to their parents. This condition happens in the traditional Chinese families. But in modern families, people are more opening at the relation of families. Maybe they would say love and miss and emotional things, I don’t know.
I was born at a traditional family in a traditional district. People in my hometown seldom say emotional words to their families, my families do so as well. I’ve never been told ”you’ve been missed” from my families, but I just know about it when ……when……Well,I just know about it.
----Corrected by Sajid (Thank you very much, Sajid.) 2009-03-16----
I got a call from my younger brother this morning. It made me suddenly tense at that moment I picked up the phone. My brother seldom never calls me if nothing happened. Usually we talk through MSN. Something must have happened because he is calling me on the phone.
But he told me everything was OK. He was calling just to make sure I was all right,because he hadn’t seen me online for a couple days.
He said he just got a little worried about me. I felt relieved after he said so, and filled with joyful.
I was joyful because I was missed by someone (especially by my family). It’s a great happiness to know there’s someone caring about me. Everybody can understand that feeling of missing and been missed, I think.
I know the American always say ”I love you” or “I miss you” or something like that to their families. But most of Chinese don’t say such things to their families, even they do so. We just don’t speak out words like that, especially to parents. Most of Chinese parents have a power of authority to their children, not friends like. So the children have more respect than love to their parents.
This condition happens in the traditional Chinese families. But in modern families, people are more openned to the relation of families. Maybe they would say love and miss and emotional things, I don’t know.
I was born at a traditional family in a traditional district. People in my hometown seldom say emotional words to their families, my families do so as well. I’ve never been told ”you’ve been missed” from my family, but I just know about it when ……when……Well,I just know it.
But he told me everything was OK. His calling just made sure I was all right, for he hadn’t seen me online for days. He said he just got a little worry about me. I felt great relief after he said so, and filled with joyful.
I was joyful because I was missed by someone (especially by families). It’s a great happiness to know about there’s someone cared about me. Everybody can understand that feeling of miss and been miss, I think.
I know the American always say ”I love you” or “I miss you” or something like that to their families. But most of Chinese don’t say such things to their families, even they do so. We just don’t speak out words like that, especially to parents. Most of Chinese parents have a power of authority to their children, not friends like. So the children have more respect than love to their parents. This condition happens in the traditional Chinese families. But in modern families, people are more opening at the relation of families. Maybe they would say love and miss and emotional things, I don’t know.
I was born at a traditional family in a traditional district. People in my hometown seldom say emotional words to their families, my families do so as well. I’ve never been told ”you’ve been missed” from my families, but I just know about it when ……when……Well,I just know about it.
----Corrected by Sajid (Thank you very much, Sajid.) 2009-03-16----
I got a call from my younger brother this morning. It made me suddenly tense at that moment I picked up the phone. My brother seldom never calls me if nothing happened. Usually we talk through MSN. Something must have happened because he is calling me on the phone.
But he told me everything was OK. He was calling just to make sure I was all right,because he hadn’t seen me online for a couple days.
He said he just got a little worried about me. I felt relieved after he said so, and filled with joyful.
I was joyful because I was missed by someone (especially by my family). It’s a great happiness to know there’s someone caring about me. Everybody can understand that feeling of missing and been missed, I think.
I know the American always say ”I love you” or “I miss you” or something like that to their families. But most of Chinese don’t say such things to their families, even they do so. We just don’t speak out words like that, especially to parents. Most of Chinese parents have a power of authority to their children, not friends like. So the children have more respect than love to their parents.
This condition happens in the traditional Chinese families. But in modern families, people are more openned to the relation of families. Maybe they would say love and miss and emotional things, I don’t know.
I was born at a traditional family in a traditional district. People in my hometown seldom say emotional words to their families, my families do so as well. I’ve never been told ”you’ve been missed” from my family, but I just know about it when ……when……Well,I just know it.
2009-03-04
器与物
器是用来容纳、传输的载体，物是被载体容纳、传输的东西。有点绕，不过，举几个例子就明白好多。比如，碗是器，饭菜是物；衣服是器，人是物；语言文字是器，思想是物；政体是器，国家是物。物是可循环再生的，而器只有一个。有的人因为看不清器与物的本质关系，分不清什么是本，什么是末，最后只能收获一个失败的人生。
先用碗和饭的关系来说吧，人吃的是饭，而不是碗。有的人把碗当成了本，花了9分的精力去打造一个精美绝伦的碗，最后剩下那1分，只能吃到粗饭，最后穷困潦倒饿死在碗边。另外一种人则是把1分精力去打造一只破碗，而用9分精力花在制造丰富食物上，最后丰衣中食老死于逸。你说是哪种人更成功些呢？当然，现代社会提倡多元化，第一种人不是没有，但现实社会中生活着的多数的、被社会所接受的还是第二种人吧。
同样，衣与人的例子也是类似的原理。有的人把大把精力放在服饰上，虽然第一眼挺帅，但交往久了你会发现这个人综合素质太差，跟这种人交住很倒胃口。而有的人虽然穿着素朴，却有良好内在素养，具君子之风雅绅士之风度，交往起来让人很开心。有的女人就因为本末倒置，认错人嫁错郎，嫁个衣囊帅哥受苦一生。聪明的女人选择与同样有内在智慧的男人一起，贫也好富也罢，都快快乐乐的生活一辈子。反过来也一样，如果一个男人只看到一个女人的漂亮外表而忽略内在美，想要长久的幸福也很难。
“语言文字是器，思想是物”这个例子有点复杂。凡是说到跟文化有点关系的东西都简单不了。文人好辩，凡是读过那么一点书的人呢，都有点自己的主张。思想观点上讨论不过，就会玩起文字游戏。但不要误会哦，读过书甚至是读了很多很多书的人不一定有智慧哦，这是不同的东西。有的人没读过什么书同样有着很高的智慧的，这个就不用我说了吧。不好意思扯远了。一个人，不管他的文字写得再好，会说的语言有多少种，只要他表达的是肮脏阴暗扭曲邪恶的思想，说的是不正不义不仁不忠的话，那他就是一陀臭巴巴，用英文说就是 ”a piece of shit”. 花大把时间去研究多种语言有什么用，还不如花点时间丰富自己的思想。语言是死的，人的思想是活的。没有思想巧嘴滑舌的人说出来的话是一种鼓噪，有思想的人甚至难得开口，一出口即是智慧。
政体是器，国家是物。中国有几千年的历史，也经过了无数个政体，这无数个政体也倒了无数次，但国家与民族依然生机勃勃地生存并繁衍下来了。政体是政体，国家是国家，一个末一个本。不能说反对政体就可以把整个国家和民族都反了。关于这方面，我不想多说了，留点空间给大家慢慢意会吧。
总之，器与物、本与末的道理，想明白了，看清楚了，很多事情的看法也就不同了。
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